Recently, one of my favorite friends posted on her blog about how awesome having kids early is. While I agree wholeheartedly with her that it has made our marriage better, it made me think of the ways it didn't work out so great.
Back when we first got married, The Hubs and I decided to have kids early. Our plan was to have kids young - so we were active and 'fun' parents, and then when they were all grown up we would still be young and be able to travel and have fun.
Then came autism.
There's no way for us to know what JT's future holds in terms of independence and such.
Which means that our 'someday' plans may never happen.
These are the things that really suck about autism.